1) ah ma and ying had different attitudes towards ancestor worship.Ah ma insisted on doing the whole process properly while ying felt that it did not matter how many times a person has to bow as long as the act is carried out and it does not waste too much time. On the other hand, ah ma took the time to speak to the dead as if the person was still alive and paying attention to everything that was said and done.This was due to the different in their age and attitude.